Wednesday, March 21, 2012

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What’s Your Future?

by Reb Akiva @ Mystical Paths

In my work in the high tech sector in Israel, I interact with many moderately successful very intelligent motivated hard working techies.  The majority of them are in their 30’s, secular Israeli Jews.  Family is a frequent topic of casual conversation, they often have 1 or 2 children, occasionally 3, while I have a large family (more than 5).

During our conversations I sometimes say to them, “Why do you have only 1 or 2 children?  You are smart and successful, exactly the kind of abilities we, the Jewish people and the State of Israel, need for the future!  Share yourself with the future!”

Unfortunately successful westernized non-religious Jews have followed a common western liberal tendency to have smaller families or no children at all.  Whether due to changing women’s roles and a drive for career over family, environmental impact concerns of a family, or simply a greater focus on self gratification instead of spending money, time and effort to raise children, the communal result is less Jews in the next generation.

Conservative insta-blogger InstaPundit picked up on a few articles describing the same phenomena among US liberals and environmentalists…

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JAMES TARANTO: Green Yet Barren: You Can’t Make A Baby By Hugging A Tree.

The baby boomers’ parents were unusually fertile, especially when compared with subsequent generations, including the boomers themselves. But the decline in fertility was not evenly distributed throughout American society.

This columnist has posited that the polarization of the electorate around the issue of abortion, combined with the direct effect of abortion itself on fertility, over the long term has a conservatizing effect on the electorate. We call it the Roe Effect. Although environmentalism is not sharply polarizing in the way that abortion is, it seems to us quite probable that a similar and overlapping effect is at work here.

After all, you can’t make a baby by hugging a tree. Attitudes about “the environment” are very much tied up with attitudes about human fertility. The prevailing view on the environmentalist left is, and has been since at least the early 1970s, that to bring a child into the world is an act of violence against Mother Earth. Along with feminism, which devalued motherhood and women’s domestic work, environmentalism motivated left-liberal baby boomers to have smaller families, or none at all.

If ideology drives one segment of the population to reproduce less, the effect compounds over time. Whereas big families get bigger with each generation, a childless couple (or single woman) is unlikely to have grandchildren either. The future belongs to the fruitful.

Childlessness is inherited. If your parents don’t have kids, you won’t either.

UPDATE: Reader Danielle Emery writes:

Your link to the article about low fertility among environmentalists reminds me of Larry L. Eastland’s 2004 WSJ article that demonstrated Gore lost Florida (and the Presidency) in 2004 due to disproportionate numbers of missing Democratic voters from abortion.

So the decline in fertility among those who lean left has already had profound and demonstrable effects on the United States.

When I bring up Mr. Eastland’s findings with my more liberal friends, I find them to be quite frustrated by it, and with no coherent response except to say the world will be a terrible place and my “descendants will be flipping burgers at McDonald’s”. Which is really not a bad thing, since it implies that: There will still be meat and we’ll be allowed to eat it; there will be money to buy it; there will still be big businesses and people to work at them. In other words, not really what the left has planned for us.

As you say, the future belongs to those who show up.

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For the Jewish people, our future has always been our children.  That hasn’t changed.

2 comments:

Tali said...

What people will tell you is that, first of all, they want to wait to have children until they are "really ready" or, as one successful professional told me, "I wanted to wait until when presented with the choice between staying home with a baby and going out to dinner with my husband, I'd choose staying at home with the baby and NOT be resentful." It sounds very mature and beautiful, but it implies that such a state will magically descend upon a person (usually at some point in their thirties) with no effort on his/her part.
Funnily, nobody puts off careers like medical school (which puts the lives of others in your hands) and the like until they feel more mature and would rather tend a patient than go out to dinner.
Simply put, children demand a tremendous amount from their parents and many feel they just aren't up to it. They cover it up with all sorts of beautiful platitudes of doing it for the child's sake, but in reality, they just don't want to give up relative control of their lives by having a child before thirty and even then only limiting it to two.
I started having children in my early 20s (obnoxiously young by the standards of the society from which I came) and despite the very normal frustrations, discomforts, and craziness that came along with having my first child, all I could think was, "If I'd only known how great this could be, I'd have gotten married and had children much earlier!"
I have tremendous gratitude to Hashem that He brought me into a society in which such an attitude could be cultivated, and that I was able to have children earlier -- and more of them!
I think that with raising children, you ultimately get a lot more than you give, despite all the demands and sacrifices on your part, and the secular world does not want to acknowledge that.

josh said...

Akiva, I think you are wrong about the fertility demographics of the non-religious Israelis and the actual statistics show that the average numbers are closer to three kids.

This clip from Elizabeth Warren is incredible. The Coming Collapse of the Middle Class: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=akVL7QY0S8A It's an hour long, so even if you don't have time for the whole lecture, put it in the background while your doing something else.

She talks, four years ago, about how the woman joining the workforce and the two income family is causing the current economic problems.

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